不必徬徨
"男人在求愛的時候取易不取難。女人在擇愛時取難不取易。是因為男人怕自信被拒絕重傷?因為女人以為征服是愛情的身價?果真如此,單身的女子不必徬徨,妳的單身代表妳有要求,你有市場,只是沒本事的男生不敢進場。當然凡事有例外,自知之明不能讓自戀感染。" --- 陳莉敏
Grateful
After all these years, my heart still feels broken all the time.
I'm grateful for anybody who cares about me. I am. However, no one but me can save myself.
I just want to be in love. That's all.
I'm grateful for anybody who cares about me. I am. However, no one but me can save myself.
I just want to be in love. That's all.
記憶原來就是紀念
"人年紀越大,記憶越像是不隨意肌,只被情感啟動。不見得想得起昨天的晚餐,卻忘不了一起漫步過的長廊;剛認識的名字轉眼就忘,心上還刻著初戀的電話號碼。記憶原來就是紀念,用味道音符觸感文字,向過去致敬:我們的點滴還有人珍藏,我愛過,我沒有忘。" --- 穆熙妍
託付終身
"為什麼總想著要找個人託付終身呢?可以找個相愛、相依、相伴的人,可是,別老想著依賴別人。世上沒有不變的東西,即使那個人很愛你,他也有死亡的一天,到時候,你又要依賴誰?女人還是要學會獨立。當你活得好,你想找的不再是一個託付終身的人,而是一個相愛到老的人。" --- 張小嫻
使你茁壯
"青澀的歲月裡,我們或許都愛上過不愛我們的人,長大真好,我們會想,要是那個人看到現在的我,肯定會後悔當時不愛我、不懂我的好。他不知道,在人生的長途比賽中,我是比他當時愛上的人要優秀許多,我甚至比他好。可是,那個人真的會看到嗎?我們又真的會在乎嗎?有些男人,的確只是個過程,使你茁壯。" --- 張小嫻
Happy birthday
在過去那麼多年的生日裏,我都不算很快樂。
可能,這廿多年來,我一直都過得不是很快樂。
其實,不論是否生日,只要我愛的人也愛我,陪在我身邊一起過,我已經會很滿足、很快樂。
很可惜,過去我沒有多少生日這樣過......
有一年,他帶了一個檸檬芝士蛋糕來我家替我慶祝,難得的舉動令我很感動。對那時的我們來說,這已經很不容易了。
有一年,那天要上學,他和我在學校切蛋糕,然後吃壽司、逛街,簡單但甜蜜。
那年生日,BB還在。
那年生日,BB還在。
有一年,他和我到海洋公園玩了大半天,很平淡、很累,但很快樂,因為他在我身邊。
有一年,我在家中埋頭苦幹一直趕essay,下午收到一紮不算很漂亮的紅玫瑰,但我很高興,因為很難得,那時的他已經不那麼愛我了,甚至已經背叛過我,傷害過我無數遍。他還很難得的在電話和我談了一段很短很短的時間。
那是我第二次收花,沒有很快樂。第一次收的花是一枝又貴又不新鮮的香檳色玫瑰;那枝花不漂亮,但那時的他還是那個他。
那亦是我爸爸最後一次和我吃生日飯。
那天,其實我也不很快樂。
那是我第二次收花,沒有很快樂。第一次收的花是一枝又貴又不新鮮的香檳色玫瑰;那枝花不漂亮,但那時的他還是那個他。
那亦是我爸爸最後一次和我吃生日飯。
那天,其實我也不很快樂。
有一年,一直等到下午,他終於打來對我說了一句沒有毫無感情的生日快樂,一說完便匆匆掛了電話。我無聲的流著淚,毫無尊嚴的硬是再打給他,他很為難的和我說了幾句敷衍說話,又掛了我的電話。
那一天,和平日一樣,我哭了很多很多遍。
後來他說會送我一份禮物或寫一張咭給我,雖然很清楚知道他不會真的送我,我仍一直默默等待,果然他後來一直都沒有送我......
那一天,和平日一樣,我哭了很多很多遍。
後來他說會送我一份禮物或寫一張咭給我,雖然很清楚知道他不會真的送我,我仍一直默默等待,果然他後來一直都沒有送我......
有一年,由過了零時零分開始,一直等到生日過去...... 一直等待明知道不會發生的事...... 等了整整一天,一個電話也沒有...... 甚至連一句生日快樂也沒有對我說...... 他忘記了我的生日嗎?
那一天,和平日一樣,心很痛很痛,偷偷哭了無數遍...... 真的很想死,但仍然在媽媽面前裝作若無其事。
那一天,和平日一樣,心很痛很痛,偷偷哭了無數遍...... 真的很想死,但仍然在媽媽面前裝作若無其事。
剩餘人生中的生日,我會過得快樂嗎?
Happy birthday to me......
Happy birthday to me......
退路
"世上根本沒有絕對的安全感,當愛變質,承諾也就變質。然而,即使曾經失望,我還是會相信諾言;只是,心中會留一條退路給自己。那麼,當對方的諾言沒有兌現,我也可以微笑跟他說:哦,我不恨你。" --- 張小嫻
痛苦卻也是救贖
"愛一個人,難免會為他受苦,無論愛的是親人或戀人也如是。牽掛是苦,思念是苦,失望和傷心是苦,得不到是苦,沒能相守是苦,生離死別是苦。愛的時候,你甚至狠狠地恨過他,巴不得以後再也見不到他。然而,後來的一天,驀然回首,你突然明白,那個人好像給了你許多痛苦,卻也是你的救贖。" --- 張小嫻
You deserve to be happy
Dr. Jake Reilly: "You deserve to be happy. Be happy, Amelia." --- <Private Practice> 06x07 - The World According to Jake
Private Practice 06x07 - The World According to Jake
Finally!! Addison knew that everything was going to be fine. Henry is her son and Jake is the love of her life. They are supposed to be family.
They love each other. They trust each other. They committed to each other. Jaddison really is spectacular.
They love each other. They trust each other. They committed to each other. Jaddison really is spectacular.
Dr. Addison Montgomery: "I love you. You’re the last man I want to say that to. Let’s get married."
Dr. Jake Reilly: "Let’s get married!"
Happily ever after, Jaddison & Henry!
不要苦苦哀求
"無論失戀有多傷心,絕對不要苦苦哀求;真正想回頭的人,根本不需要你開口。現在的你有多卑微,以後的你就會有多後悔;後悔自己當初不爭氣,讓人看輕。這是鐵則,條件再好的對象都適用,不分男女,你給我記!住!了!" --- 穆熙妍
Give up what we used to believe
Dr. Meredith Grey: "It can be scary to find out you’ve been wrong about something but we can’t be afraid to change our minds, to accept that things are different, that they’ll never be the same, for better or for worse. We have to be willing to give up what we used to believe. The more we’re willing to accept what is and not what we thought, we’ll find ourselves exactly where we belong." --- <Grey's Anatomy> 09x06 - Second Opinion
禮物
"禮物就是present,是當時的情意。自己捨不得買的,卻捨得買給他,省吃儉用,只為了他臉上一個幸福的微笑。當此情不再,把送他的禮物要回來固然是小家子氣,把他送的禮物統統退回去,也夠難看的。曾經相愛,過後又何必那麼計較?那麼孩子氣?我曾為愛付出、甚至浪擲的任何東西,我也不打算向你要回來。" --- 張小嫻
You weren't worth the truth
"The worst thing about being lied to is knowing you weren't worth the truth." --- Anonymous
Be careful with your words
"Be careful with your words, once they are said, they can only be forgiven, but not forgotten." --- Anonymous
Grey's Anatomy 09x05 - Beautiful Doom
Dr. Cristina Yang: "I'm not a spoon. I'm a knife and I'm going to stab you in the eyeball."
Dr. Meredith Grey: "Is Anyone Gonna Help Me?!"
Dr. Craig Thomas: "This is the biggest aneurysm I have ever seen."
Dr. Cristina Yang: "Considering your age, that's saying something."
Dr. Meredith Grey: "Can't you just give your sex friend more sex so he doesn't fire your old man friend?"
Dr. Cristina Yang: "I'm not a prostitute!"
Dr. Alex Karev: "Meredith, I'm not going to potty train your kid."
Dr. Meredith Grey: "Sorry, you're right. Forget it."
Dr. Alex Karev: "Already did."
Dr. Meredith Grey: "Dance or you're fired."
R.I.P. Dr. Craig Thomas
Dr. Craig Thomas: "Breathe, Dr. Yang. Don’t be crass. You are skulking. Women of your generation are graceless. It’s an affront to nature. Mediocre surgeons will see you and feel themselves wilting in your shadow. Do not shrink to console them. Do not look for friends here, you won’t find them. None of these people have the capacity to understand you. They never will. If you’re lucky, one day when you’re old and shriveled like me, you’ll find a young doctor with little regard for anything but their craft. And you’ll train them like I trained you. Until then, read a good book. You have greatness in you Yang. Don’t disappoint."
Dr. Meredith Grey: "Lexie's dead."
Dr. Cristina Yang: "Yeah. Everyone's dead."
Dr. Cristina Yang: "Yeah. Everyone's dead."
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